Mind Training 1

• MIND training 1 ! 1>spend atleast one doy in a month to be completely on dhotra shalya with naam mudras .. 2> do not sit on chair or bed .. 3> eat sitting on floor , give chitrahuti and chant krishna mantra before food and naryan ashtaxar after food .. 4> keep 16 tulasi , five for pooja five for our own body .. five for teertha and subsequently use them in food ..while [pranayasvaha etc ] one for taking teertha after food .. [ five on body is two in years , one in nabhi , one on head , one in tuongue and onefor smelling ] ..... 5> after food spend time in reding a purana or smriti .. and tell a story to family members .. 6> if you go to malavisarjana take bath again .. 7> do evening sandhya and pooja .. 8> invite a bramhan acouple and give buttermilk [scented milk ] ,panaka ,kosambri , tamboola and dakshina ... 9> take meals early by 8 pm .. 10> do laya chintana and sleep
• try it and see how mind comes under control instantly ...
• if you dont have bramhana to invite , give gograss in mutt ... or set side the dasjhina and break a coconut after offering all TO krishna .. [ one can do tottilu seva instead ]
• keeping amala gatra morsel for YAMa chitragupta
• laya chintana i have to write a post on it ...
• everybody is .. but baby steps
• Nirmalya
• tualsi offered to lORD should be smelt .. thats the purpose of ghranendriya
• nobody since morning said I will do this !!! strange
• savere shamm tak dhoti nahi pehen sakte toh bada bada baat karke kya fayda ?
• women have obligation of husband .. kalko sab husband log milek .. mere pe abhichaar kardenge .. yeh kaun chiran hai bhai iske wajah se theek se grahasthi nahi chal rahi .. jab dekho assignment ..
• lagta PS ko neend agayi .. yeh wala style patent karana mangta hai .. medicine se bhi bhaari hai
• stotra diya toh husband bolega yeh kya man himan mantra padke mujhpe jaadu tona karte ho .. kisne sikhay ye sab ..
• isliye achcha dasra pad agayo .. achche dish banan sikho saas sasur ki seva karo .. griahsthi apne aap chakne lagegi ..
• theek hai soup ayaaa namo namaha
• Satvik chore ko nishaane pe SADHNA bhala isse achcha kya sadhana
• yes
• to lift up spirits be in high SPIRITS
• udaseenta comes out of several reasons . 1> meidcine overdose 2> depression 3>routine persuit of activity without knwoledge .. [ ie lack of manan ] 4> suppression of desire 5> want of holiday 6> lack of proper appeal from spouse 7> sinful avesha 8> no reguklation of senses 9> bad conpany 10>excessive abuse of senses ..or re[eatedly partying
• sadhan should be always done in prafullit state of mind .. so first get happiness in life .. and then atempt sadhan .. gin for sadhan just because happiness has eluded in life is udaseenta .. the good days will again memerise and turn away the mind .. sadhan should be done in happy frame or total; vairagya .. only ..
• when in dperession or unhapiiness one must seek solutin for problems from yatis or by seva of rayaru ...
• so give a jubaan to your emotions .. be happy
• USUALLY SANYASIS fall prey to KAAMA only because of this udaaseenta .. same goes with others ... ONE must innovate ways to beat it
• EVEN INDRA when faced with UDASEENTA had abducted KUBERA's wife !!!!
• so udaaseenta is not something to be taken as just a little lULL but actual ROADBLOCK .....
• WESTERNERS go on HOLIDAY and seek ADVENTURE .... ADVENTURE is nothing but surprise arousal of SENSES .. which was latent .. BUT THIS is SIN in disguised form ..
• dhoti means wearing kachche , kaupin .. and shalya washed by self .. in madi
• women should take ideally from husband
• No !!! women must get upadesha from of gurumantra from HUSBAND only [ even if he is is in LKG his women will have to be iun preKG] , there is no need for involved YATI ... for women Pratyaxx upadesha is PROHIBITED by MADHWACHARYA .. they can listen learn in presence of other dwijas
• we are TALKING ABOUT gurmantra .. this si personal sadhna .. JUST as BIMBA upasan is taken from ATMAGURU only .. and vidya guru can be many .. SO also GURUMNATRA from PATI only ... rest other subjects anyone can teach father brother husband's guru etc ..
• whichever upadesh your husbandji has ... same mantra minus OM [ add shree ]
• befire giviung upadesha punyavachan .. mangal snana .. should be done
• mudra means only NAAM on forehad .. and narayan mudra on forearms .. thats it
• choose a Panchami ..
• ONE who gives BIMBA MOORTY dhyaan is ATMA GURU
• yes
• before taking food ..
• first initial sadhan should be attempted .. after many stages of sadhna BIMBOPASANA eligibility comes .. ATMA GURU comes and gives it
• 1013 births after PAROXA
• Rayaru KRIPA iddare SAKU
• FIFth lord moon in own house excelent begining
• your sadhan will give you lot of financial gains
• pancha mudra application gives sthritha in JAPA
• 1> kutuhal is not women one must practise not to express kutuhal 2>women should refrain fromshowing inetrest in haas parihaas .. hasya is knwon as mala of pativrata .... 3> kootneeti is not for wome, 4> women should exhibit plain heart ... 5> women should try not to sit idle thinking .. 6> women should not befrind sanyasis , gardners , florists , merchants , mendicants , doctors , physically handicapped , tantriks , washer woman , spies , shaven heads , gypsies and horseriders ..and beggars and gymnasts 7> women should not enetertain other women who keep crying , asking for help 8> women must always [ practise this daily ] try to be attentive to needs of husband 9> she must learn new arts and atr forms .. 10 > study neeti again and again 11> engage her husband in giving vedanta lesons 12 > nuture elderly mother in law in as many ways as possible 13 > study artha shastra 14 > study dhatu shastra 15 > DO dhyana of PAti antargat NARAYANA [ all her pooja yoga abhyas , devat dhyaana stotra pathan japa shoudl eb PATI antargat BHARATI raman mukhypranantargat LAXMi naryana .. vishesh LAXMI dhayan .. stree rupa dhyana of NARYA is recommended .. pranyama being most important
• DEv barmhana atithi pooja being most important for wome ... it must be practised onece a month .. once a month women must trainher mind saying i will not do hasya today .. next day no expression of kutuhal , maun vrat another day ... complete attn of husband 24 hrs single day
• but there are many steps in womens' sadhana , unfortunately sadhan pages for women is total standstill ... the sadhan practise for women is quiet complex .. needs customizations and publicly cannot be discussed as SHASTRAS say there are infinite varieies of women ... and each have indivalistic developments ..
• for women NOT being "UDAASEEN" is greatest mind training , because a smiling women at house lifts spirits of entire house ..
• SHASTRAs especially ask women to be MITA BHAASHi . mrudu bhaashi [ special mention is that women should practise NOT to SPEAK kathor marma bhedhi vachan to her husband ] ...
• one must try to maintain herself as KOMALANGI [ some women do not give sattentionher and develp into a KARKASH presentation ]
• SUVASINi is another adjective given to women , this comes only when one knows hw to use COSMETICs ...VAIRAGYA is not for women ... [ while thre shudl e vairagya towards husnbands' salary and its rise ]
• one definite thing a WOMEN must practise is NEVER release herself and get away fromthe arms of husband ... this is considered as greatest sin inshastras .. one must not express unhapiiness at the approach of husband [ never ne must turn away the ehad while speasking ] even if one is in VRATA niyam or UPAVASA... this one practise alone will fetch her moksha
• keeping a smiling disposition and talking in a an agreeable manner [ this LORD vARAHA says is got by many janma's PUNYA to a man ] is single most desirable seva a women can do to achive asheervaad of all DEVATAS bramhanas ... all her pooja and vrata niyama will WASTE if one desnt DO THIS [ hope neela you are seeing this ]
• refraining from keeping a frowning face is GREATEST sadhana ..
• LIKING everything that a husband likes and disliking what he dislikes is another GREAT sadhana ..
• Suresh Maruthi as I ahve said women is dificult topic , we [ male preachers scholars ] cannot put ourselves into their shoes and evalvate it ,, but even eating stuff etc ,, at the insistence of husband does not give narak to them .. as he himself will partake that sins .. so GOD has many concessions to women . and womens behaviur is very intuitive .. and varied and innovative .. and things change because women INTENDS >..
• Sree Chulki technically speaking as k any women ! DOES women need any world other than her MAN [ if things go perfect ]
• all the women who wuld like to seek another world too can be said to be faraway in the path of sadhana ,, just like a male becomes virakta and indulges only inHARI dhyana , so also a an women sadhka becomes withdrawn from HOOPLA of worldy attractions and engrosses completely into her HUSBAND ... NOW funny thing is as SAINT becomes totally virakta and HARI dhyaan asakta he becomkes more and more popular and is sought after by WORLD , so also a great PATIVRATA women [ DRAUPADI ] become more and more dynamic
• sO SeRVING pati ONLY IS NOT A BORING IDEA AS THOUGHT OUT ..
• sadhana is about BRINGING back mind from that LOSS of focus in mundane life
• everyday one must focus and refocus .. that is sadhana ... as a RAYAR lieutinant I only enthuse you all to FOCUS .. because KALi has many props to DEFUSE
• NO it si true WOMEN's sadhan is not a clearly laid out path .. it is unque for each .. sometime something may be right for one something may be wrong for other ... EMBRACING [other than PATI ] MADE VRUNDA a DIVINE tulasi ..whule others would go t nitya naraka
• SAME embrace [ even here the mischief aker was in HUSBAND's rupa ] made UGARSEN's wife give brith to HARIDWESHi KAMSA
• Same embrace [ even here it was anothrman inhusband's rupa ] made ahalya A STONE
• mamata EVEN THOUGH PREGNANT OBLIGING braihastpati [ HUSBAND'S BROTHER ] GAVE BIRTH TO great bharadwaaj
• tara DEVI OBLIGING huSBAND'S DISCIPLE GAVE BIRTH TO PIoUS budha ... but kunti OBLIGING sun GAVE BIRTH TO PARTIALY EVIL karna
• SO VARIED IS THE srishti SO QUNTIFYING WOMEN and her behaviour and consequence is not a MAle's cup of TEA ..
• male hota leking uske age FEE hota hai fokut mein nahi
• baat memebership ki hai toh main batau ....3000 4000 memebership hone ke baavjud ksii post ko 100 150 like nahi milte yaani koi nahi padta , padta toh udaseen bhav se .. even blogs of BACHCHAN amir etc todyaget 25 30 hits ..from 1 lakh on first day.. while even in absence and non active for three months blog is getting thousands f hits .. that is people are reading ...and with enthusiasm .. that is readership .. ONE MUST HAVE QUALITY MEMBERSHIP and not numbers
• bahu bhuja
• there are thousands of groups to cater to daily "chara " of so so spiritualism that gives a feeling chalo aaj ihave done a spiritual detour and satisfy one's ego I AM SPIRITUAL ...... but here I am very much PARTICULAR that for BRAMHANS that is not enough ... THEY have to GO onestep AHEAD ... push the boundary ... 1> come out of materialist frame of mind 2> dont compete in pseudo SUCCESS race 3> dont pay lip service to shastra [ just struggle with sandhya and feel huh I am pious great ] BUT learn to excell and revel in tradition madhWa TRADITION TRADITION OF sTALWARTS
• aih aurto pe nahi bhaya aurto ke mentality par
• there is no ATMA uddhara discarding HUSBAND .. the character f husband is testing of WIFE ...NO pooja vrata upavas awhich has no approval of husband guives phala .. what is reequired is serve husband .. a loving husband , whenhe is confident and ahppy onhis wife , lietens to his wife [ universal ] ... at that time proper hitabodha like minister coaxing a KING to right and wrong should be done ,, [ remember changing himshould not be the motto or obsession , but just doing yur duty as wife that is coax him about right and wrong using neeti ]
• lok at the history , no wise minsiter [pious] has left his wayward KING ... and iether has he STOPPED talking words of wisdm to KING ..
• so KARYESHU MANTRI shuld be adhered to
• fool ho ya sthul phool toh dena hi hai .. warna punya spool nahi hota aur sadhana pool mein jata
• Hrishi ne cease fire sign kar diya hai woh bhi "kappu"dekar
• yues AA balaa ko sabalaa banake kaa
• south indian intonationation cannot help
• yes sa baala [ laptop deke ]
• SHUBH shubh bolo SHUCHI , mere upar balaa kyun chahti ho
• viju man mein laddoo phutaa !!
• Vasan Vs girls should be made to do katyayani vrata ..