Marriage is just one among many of series of happiness or miseries that man undergoes in life . Type of marriage determines the type of progeny, unconventional marraiges give spritually less developed children. This in the long run puts a stop to giving tushti to ancestors and hence accumulates papa . Those who betray women , or have many wives and at the same time illtreat one of the wives 2. those who hurt in parents , kill or terrorrise these end up having unconeventional marraiges that end in disaster in the next life.
When happiness is destined and fulcrum of life is better conjugal life then also god gives Gandharva between equally [guni] pairs.
There is difference between anuraaga and moha . Moha is defined as wanting that which is not yours , anuraaga is natural towards which is yours , you dont strive for it , you don’t fear losing it , Moha always creates unrest in the mind . Unfortunately english language is short of words , love marriage out of moha is due to Papa of the past karma , love marraige due to anuraaga is due to Punya of past karma.
papa is defines as parpeedanam , punya is defined as that which brings happiness to many and is of beneficience to many.
Marriages happen out of karma only , what type of marriage one undergoes [there are eight types of marriages] determines the amount of punya that one gives to his number of ancestors, [every karma that we do ,its consequences will be experienced by our ancestors[pitru] and also by those who will be born as sons and grandsons . first four types of marriages give punya to 21 ,11 ,7,3 ancestors . Fourth is gandharva marriage [this should not be confused with intercaste/religion marriage] ,this does not yield any punya . the other three gives papa rather than punya due to marrige.
When there is complete union of mind [ chittanukulya] whether before or after marriage is purely predestined and karma. But this is natural to the enlightened souls.
1] Husband and wife relation is a natural relation . As I have stated in the blogs ,Souls have gender, Male or female ,God is bothe male and female. being husband and wife is eternal even in Moksha, wife gets moksha as her husband gets Moksha , till then wife has to wait in Lakshmi loka . To maintain this balance ,husbands’ half punya is given to wife ,and a wife does not share his sins.
Everytime same pair becomes wife and husband , sometimes this gets disturbed on account of sins , to get restored ,it takes seven births .But Lakshmi Vishnu Sarstwati Bramha ,Bharati and vayu never get disturbed even in avataras.
Married life keeps changing as per the punya we have accumulated , those who pray Krishna with white ,flowers sweet smelling ,then one gets beautiful wife , if not then no such things etc.
after crores of births in animal bodies one gets a human birth if one sins then he goes back again in the cycle of animals. so one must not misuse human birth .
When happiness is destined and fulcrum of life is better conjugal life then also god gives Gandharva between equally [guni] pairs.
There is difference between anuraaga and moha . Moha is defined as wanting that which is not yours , anuraaga is natural towards which is yours , you dont strive for it , you don’t fear losing it , Moha always creates unrest in the mind . Unfortunately english language is short of words , love marriage out of moha is due to Papa of the past karma , love marraige due to anuraaga is due to Punya of past karma.
papa is defines as parpeedanam , punya is defined as that which brings happiness to many and is of beneficience to many.
Marriages happen out of karma only , what type of marriage one undergoes [there are eight types of marriages] determines the amount of punya that one gives to his number of ancestors, [every karma that we do ,its consequences will be experienced by our ancestors[pitru] and also by those who will be born as sons and grandsons . first four types of marriages give punya to 21 ,11 ,7,3 ancestors . Fourth is gandharva marriage [this should not be confused with intercaste/religion marriage] ,this does not yield any punya . the other three gives papa rather than punya due to marrige.
When there is complete union of mind [ chittanukulya] whether before or after marriage is purely predestined and karma. But this is natural to the enlightened souls.
1] Husband and wife relation is a natural relation . As I have stated in the blogs ,Souls have gender, Male or female ,God is bothe male and female. being husband and wife is eternal even in Moksha, wife gets moksha as her husband gets Moksha , till then wife has to wait in Lakshmi loka . To maintain this balance ,husbands’ half punya is given to wife ,and a wife does not share his sins.
Everytime same pair becomes wife and husband , sometimes this gets disturbed on account of sins , to get restored ,it takes seven births .But Lakshmi Vishnu Sarstwati Bramha ,Bharati and vayu never get disturbed even in avataras.
Married life keeps changing as per the punya we have accumulated , those who pray Krishna with white ,flowers sweet smelling ,then one gets beautiful wife , if not then no such things etc.
after crores of births in animal bodies one gets a human birth if one sins then he goes back again in the cycle of animals. so one must not misuse human birth .
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