brahmacharya

bramhacharya in

todays
world

is not possible …
lets not talk utopian ideas …..
yes if you are asking how to observe bramhacharya …
then
one must not see tv cinema ..
one must cultivate habbit of not looking at girls while walking .. sitting in public places ,,,while moving around or traveling or just loitering in the terrace or garden.. in short looking at the girls women without reason ..should be practised … eyes should not hover around to look for women …
one must not talk to any women when alone ..
one must not talk about women laugh around the subject etc ..
one must not spill retas with voluntarily …
one must not get into any act of viewing picture films or sounds or views that would result in spill of retas ..
one must neither fantasize
all the above acts will forcibly reduce ozas ..there is flow of retas downwards from each dhamni ..
the above things constitute PRACTISE of bramhacharya …
once practised well and essence is well known …
THEN EVEN IF ONE PERFORMS ANY OF THE ABOVE ACTS AND IF OZAS DOES NOT REDUCE >>THERE IS NO LOSS OF RETAS >> THAN DESPITE THE LAPSE OF ABOVE ACHARAN THERE WILL BE NO LOSS OF BRAMHACHARYA >>>
THAT MEANS >> A PERSON WELL ESTABLISHED IN YOGA BRAMHACHARYA > EVEN IF HE TALKS TO WOMEN >> EVEN IF HE IS IN THECOMPANY OF WOMEN >>IF THE RETAS IN DHAMNI { NOT PAYU } is urdhwa ..then he IS A BRAMHACHARI >>>SUCH PEOPLE ARE NOT AFFECTED BY TALK LOOK OR COMPANY OF WOMEN >>
this rule applies to all practises ..
initially to achieve something if we practise hard … than after achieveing the basics followed when practising even if they lapse siddhi does not lapse … that means …if mletcha sambhashan is detrimental to sadhana .. then after achieving siddhi meletch sambhashan will not constitute loss of siddhi …
this is beautiful gift of GOD